Practical Strategies

Effective Conflict Resolution Strategies for Kids

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Conflicts are inevitable in human interactions and arise when individuals have different opinions, wants, or needs. This is a lesson children learn early. Whether it’s a friendly debate about which game to play or a spat over a shared toy, these everyday disagreements are opportunities for children to learn about empathy, communication, and collaborative problem-solving. Conflicts can manifest in various shapes and situations. In positive conflicts, where both parties are on equal footing and motivated to find a solution, the conflict often becomes a constructive …

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Teaching Kids Fogging Techniques Against Verbal Bullying

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Verbal bullying and complaints are communicative expressions but differ significantly in intent, effect, and purpose. Verbal bullying is an aggressive behaviour characterized by repeated harmful statements intending to belittle, hurt, or intimidate someone. It can manifest as name-calling, taunting, threatening, or derogatory remarks. It is essential to note that verbal bullying is not a one-time insult. Instead, it is systematic, recurring, and intended to exercise power. In contrast, complaints generally originate from dissatisfaction or concern about a situation or behaviour without the intent to …

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When Threats Don’t Solve Conflictual Situations with Our Children

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Some time ago, I heard a frustrated parent telling their child: “Do this one more time, and I will take away all your toys”. Unsurprisingly, the child reacted with screams and cries. Far from me to judge this interaction, as all parents reach that exhausting point of running low on time, sleep, and energy, and for once, they just need some peace and quiet, and kids listen to them.   However, imagine the child reacts after a few fights like this: “Fine, take my toys. …

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Healthy Methods to Handle Our Children’s Anxieties

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Courage is doing what you’re afraid to do. There can be no courage unless you’re scared. Edward Vernon Rickenbacker, an American fighter pilot in World War I  Some children are more anxious than others. For them, dangers seem to be everywhere: a new brother or sister, going to a new school, a change of routines, separation anxiety.   Consider that our children fear doing something. Which of the following answers do we usually say? (some answers are picked from Lawrence Cohen’s book The Opposite of Worry)   …

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What I Wish I Knew Before Having My Child

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While creating the outline for an article about preventing parenting burnout, I kept thinking about what I wanted to know before I had a child. So, I asked my husband and some of my friends what they wish they knew before their first newborn. In random order, and under the guise of anonymity, here are some ideas:  Breastfeeding  One of the biggest myths about breastfeeding is that it is easy, billions of mothers have done it before us, and it only takes a bit of …

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Playing Stereotypes: How We Assign Gender Roles to Children

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Note: This article concentrates on male/female gender roles and not on the broad spectrum of gender identity. Gender expectations start before babies are born. It is not unusual for fathers to want a son to play sports together and mothers to want a daughter to doll up. While pregnant, I told a lady in the tram that I am expecting a baby girl. She told me to count myself lucky as daughters are more inclined to keep in touch with family after leaving the nest. …

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Colours and Gender Bias: The History Behind The Pink Versus Blue Debate

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More often than not, marketers rely on a simple concept to create products designed for women, “pink it and shrink it”. This strategy involves taking an everyday product, paint in pink and making it smaller: razors, clothing, earbuds, technical gear, toolsets, notebooks, pens, etc. Then we have the Pink Tax, gender-based price discrimination where identical products are priced differently based on the targeted gender.  Boots had to correct their prices on toiletries and charge men and women equally. A study compared different industries, such as toys, clothing, …

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Letters to my Daughter: Myths and Tips to Strategically Distinguish Between Careers and Passions

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My dear daughter, you are still so incredibly young. But no sooner than I catch my breath for one moment and puff, you will be quickly wondering: what should I do with my life? What job should I pursue? Should I follow my passion? After all, isn’t what they say “choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life”?  No, my dear daughter, following your passion is terrible career advice. Focus instead on building rare and valuable …

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